I went on a dating site yesterday for the first time in many months. I have confidence and self-esteem issues, and after a terrible relationship, I\’ve been humiliated so many times, romantically and otherwise, that it\’s pretty hard for me to trust men. But since I\’m in such a state right now, I didn\’t have anyone, maybe a friend to chat with, so I decided to go there again, stayed there for about 2 hours, and eventually considered deleting it, and 2 hours later, 2 men invited me to join their instagrams. But I gave them the link to my Instagram so they could verify it was me.

Suddenly, the guy stopped contacting me, so I asked him if he was ok, and within seconds I found out that he blocked me on dating chat and for no reason at all, Instagram I found out that he had kicked me out of So I didn\’t want to give the other gentleman my instagram anymore and he blocked me until the morning. Frankly, I am offended by this behavior. I understand that they want to make sure I am a real person, but as I mentioned above, I have confidence issues, so this behavior of theirs doesn\’t help much. Instead, it makes me feel even more sick and strange, as if I have done something wrong.

I have read that it is common for women to be asked by men on dating sites for their social networking sites, but not tell them exactly for safety reasons, or not consider it important. I was not discouraged and continued to get to know men there, with 2-3 exceptions, but they were all self-centered and arrogant types, and despite my efforts, conversations did not develop, and despite my writing that I was not looking for sex, I wrote for that purpose I lost confidence again because there were so many people who were doing this and very few decent people. I thought I would find someone, but I found nothing.